Do you need a hug and an affirmation?
Do you need a strong shake to keep going?
Do you need honest insight where you are stuck, or truths that you refuse to see into yourself?
Do you need to have someone who sees the actual path you are on or choosing to walk and work with you where you are now?
Spiritual development is about asking the right questions consistently. Spoon fed answers are unsatisfying, they mean less if you haven’t figured it out for yourself. Being a mentor, or a coach, it is to encourage you to do the work.