Mind, Body, and Emotion in Balance create Spirit. Life, Love, and Truth in Harmony create Integrity. Spirit and Integrity create Soul
These are the principles that I live and teach by.

Deep ingrained trauma never goes away, it is like a scar.

One can heal by changing how our reactions to stimuli that would normally trigger us into an old pattern. Cognitive therapy by various means and through personal alchemy, we can change how we feel and react to these events that would normally relive the trauma or act in a way that is not conforming to our will. That is work, but the psychological trauma is never HEALED. We learn to avoid it and work towards a better life that doesn’t negatively affect us. Some people can not leave environmental realities. These psychological scars wear at us emotionally, physical fatigue, daily onslaught of negativity can wear away what protections we put in place.

Privileged people in spiritual bypassing can overlook someone’s conditions by being safe in the environment they are now in. They have a spiritual ego without the awareness and empathy of those who are inundated by negative things in someone else’s world.

In those circumstances is there spiritual progress? Yes. The discipline of altering how we act over and over to improves our lives, improves our spirit and our soul. Physically we may not escape where we are at, at the moment; but we can work on how it affects us. When the worst of days come, the abuse comes from many sources, when I am physically and emotionally tired, the triggering of traumas and my old reactions to it comes in the same terrifying waves of experience. Getting 2 to 5 minutes of meditative breath I can stop the reaction, instead of it lasting days or weeks. Some jobs and situations, I even had to take anti-depressants for some time. Using meditation and internal alchemy I could improve my mind and emotions. Changing the job helped most. Obligations kept me from doing so for a long time. I understand it is difficult.

Not living in a monastic environment where we can avoid emotions, I’ve learned that each emotion has a positive and negative side. It is about how energy is used.

Anger helps us focus, being mad one loses control and energy.

Sorrow we learn to accept loss, being morose, one clings to what is lost and looses energy to the past.

Joy we embrace our life, giddieness we fritter away our energy with infatuation.

Pensive is where we take energy and store it with an action, versus worry where we run energy out with no prepared action.

Respect we see the world as it is, and act accordingly; versus, fear where it drains of energy, response and rationality.

When we choose to change the energetic way of emotions work, we can conserve our emotional, physical and spiritual energy. Is it easy? No. Does it take time and rehearsal, yes. Eventually we improve our lives and reactions to past traumas. In our mind and emotional reactions we avoid the triggered traumas of the past.

There are parts of the brain from traumas the brain cells feed off of glutamates, and permanently wire memories, actions and reactions. This is where traumas create effectively sensitive scars. The idea that you should be HEALED, bypasses this physical fact and how people struggle with it every day regardless of how much spiritual growth that they have. Trust in your growth. Meditative detachment, and moving into the script and behaviors we have programmed for our selves to keep us from trigger those parts of the brain is what we do. People selling that their spiritual processes will heal you, and infer there is something wrong with you when it doesn’t work, they haven’t been there or are abusive themselves and looking for followers and sycophants. This spiritual bypassing is toxic.

What work you have done to make your life better and how you react to life, I am proud of you. When you work to get a balance after all those triggers have been pushed, I am proud of you. I carry my scars proudly, even my mental ones. I have stopped the abuse cycle from affecting my family. I don’t mirror the abuse patterns to other people. And I love myself for doing the best I can with what I have been dealt with. LOL, sometimes I eat too much or the wrong things, or wallow in hypervigilance, and other counter-dependent behaviors. I breath, and focus on my day to day. It is the practice and discipline. IN the end and into the next life, the disciplines, and alignment will carry over, the rest I’ll shed with this body. Know I am proud of you. No matter how you feel and or being overwhelmed today. Each step in a new way of being no matter how much that old life haunts you, is an act of a worthy warrior, creating a better self and world around you. I’ll be proud of you.

Be Proud of Yourself!

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